A guided couple reflection

Our Relationship Vision

This exercise is completed together after each partner has created an individual My Relationship Vision. Set aside a little unhurried time, bring both visions, and sit somewhere you can reflect side by side.

Your responses are saved on this device as you go.

A moment of preparation

Before You Begin

Have you and your partner both completed the My Relationship Vision?

Bring your reflections together

Do you both have your Relationship Visions in front of you?

You may use the email copy, the results page on a device, or a printed copy—whatever makes it easiest to read through both visions together.

How this works

From “My Vision” to “Our Vision”

Each partner created a picture of the relationship they want. Now you’ll look at those visions together.

First, you’ll notice the hopes and desires you share. These will become Our Relationship Vision.

Then, you’ll notice the things that matter to one of you but do not naturally overlap. These will become Our Relationship Potential.

“This isn’t about deciding whose vision is right. It’s about discovering what you share and becoming curious about where you’re different.”

Reflect side by side

Compare Your Visions

Read through both of your Relationship Visions together. As you go, notice what feels shared and what seems unique to one of you. Add what you notice to the appropriate space below. Your words don’t need to match exactly for something to be shared.

1

What We Share

What hopes, experiences, qualities, or desires appear in both of your visions?

For example: We both wrote about wanting more laughter and fun, feeling close and affectionate, making decisions as a team, and having a peaceful home.

2

What Is Different

What appears in one person’s vision but doesn’t clearly appear in the other’s?

Different doesn’t mean incompatible. You don’t need to resolve these differences here. For now, simply notice and capture them.

For example: One of us wrote about traveling and having more adventures together. The other wrote more about financial security and creating predictable routines at home.

Your reflections save automatically on this device.

One final step

Who should receive your shared vision?

Both partners will receive the completed Our Relationship Vision and Our Relationship Potential by email. Each partner’s My IMAGO Journey will also be updated when a matching Hub profile exists.